Sparks???

No sparks here. So I went on the date had a great time. I think he told me I was pretty probably 20 times. Considering he's seen me at my worst and continued to ask me out I knew he would be surprised as to what I look like outta the pool. So we went to dinner talked a bunch and went for drinks after all in all about 3hrs. We had good conversation. He really had no idea what kinda of person I am. He thought I was some quiet, shy, innocent, patient person. YAH NO!! I'm somewhat outgoing, completely sacrcastic, witty, like to give people shit. For instance earlier in the day I called him out about shaving his chest and having bleached teeth. Both of which he claims is untrue but I still think he bleaches his teeth. So I had fun but no sparks. Maybe its just me but I was talking to a friend and the topic of sex came up. I mentioned I can only have sex with a person that there is a certain spark with. That sitting, chatting and flirting gives me a lil tingle that kinda spark. Don't get me wrong he's a good looking guy he's 5'11", part indian and portuguese, black hair, light brown eyes, and he's pretty built. But there is something not there and I dont' think its the age thing. Its just not there. So my friend mentioned that the spark doesn't necessarily need to be there for her to you know... yah well maybe its odd but I need that spark otherwise there is kinda a no go. So basically I ended the date with a hug and a "we should go out again I had fun". Which I honestly ment but I don't know if going out again would be a step in the I want something more direction. Which I don't. I'm completely happy with having my sexy sexy boy in far away land to take care of my sexual needs. He gives me an ULTIMATE spark by a tinkle in the eyes.... Hey maybe thats it... maybe only blue eyed boys have the 'spark'... no... cuz not all of them do. I don't know some feed back would be nice though.